Har haan ek jagah leti hai
Kabhi kabhi din bhar kaam karne ke baad bhi ek ajeeb sa sawaal bacha rehta hai: aaj jo zaroori tha, uske paas pahunch paaye? Messages ka jawab diya, kuch deadlines sambhaali, kisi ka kaam aasaan kiya. Phir bhi jis baat ke liye waqt nikaalna tha, woh kal ki list mein chali gayi.
Apne din ko dekhein toh har kaam ki wajah mil sakti hai. Kisi ko intezaar nahin karwana tha. Mauka achha laga. Mana karna awkward tha. Ek aur zimmedaari lene par laga ki manage ho jaayega. Har haan apne aap mein chhoti thi; saath aakar unhone din bhar diya.
Ismein kuch ajeeb nahin hai. Hum doosron ke saath rehte aur kaam karte hain. Kisi ki zaroorat humare convenient hone ka intezaar nahin karti. Lekin apni haan ko kabhi palatkar dekhna bhi zaroori lagta hai. Kya main ab bhi iske peeche khada hoon? Ya bas ek baar keh diya tha, isliye chala jaa raha hoon?
Mujhe is sawaal mein thodi imaandari dikhti hai. Uska jawab turant dena zaroori nahin. Pehle itna dekh lena kaafi ho sakta hai ki humara waqt jaa kahan raha hai.
Sahi ka matlab kya hai?
Sahi cheezein hamesha badi ya impressive nahin hoti. Kabhi ek kaam ko dhyaan se khatam karna. Kabhi kisi ki baat beech mein apna jawab taiyaar kiye bina sunna. Kabhi kuch seekhne ke liye itna rukna ki samajh na aane ki baat maan sakein. Inka koi khaas announcement bhi nahin hota.
Phir bhi, apni pasand ko samajhne ke liye bas achha lagna kaafi nahin. Kuch kaam mushkil hote hain aur phir bhi hum unhe karna chahte hain. Kuch kaam aasaan hain, lekin unke liye hum baar baar woh waqt de dete hain jo kahin aur dena tha. Dono ko pehchaanne mein thoda waqt lag sakta hai.
Ek sawaal kaam aa sakta hai: agar is kaam ke baare mein kisi ko pata na chale, toh bhi kya main iske liye jagah banana chaahunga? Yeh koi final test nahin hai. Pehchaan, paisa aur tarakki ki zaroorat bhi sach hai. Bas kabhi is sawaal se apni wajah thodi saaf sunai deti hai.
Har kisi ke paas chunne ki ek jaisi azaadi bhi nahin hoti. Ghar ka kharcha, doosron ki dekhbhaal aur naukri ki shartein calendar mein pehle se jagah leti hain. Un zimmedaariyon ke beech milne wali chhoti si gunjaish bhi apni hoti hai.
Jitna nibha sakein
Kisi cheez ki parwah karna aur uske liye har waqt available rehna alag baatein hain. Ek dost ko aaj aadha ghanta de sakte hain. Kisi project mein ek hissa achhe se kar sakte hain. Kisi ki madad ke liye apni seema pehle bata sakte hain. Rishta ya kaam phir bhi humare liye maayne rakh sakta hai.
'Main yeh kar sakta hoon, lekin Friday tak' kehna kabhi kabhi mushkil padta hai. Dar hota hai ki saamne waala niraash hoga. Phir bhi saaf baat se use apna plan banane ka mauka milta hai. Ek bahut badi haan, jiska baad mein pata hi na chale, dono taraf uljhan chhod sakti hai.
Apne liye bhi waada thoda saaf ho sakta hai. Is hafte poori zindagi badalne ke bajaye, kaunsa kaam sach mein poora karna hai? Kitna waqt dena hai? Kahan rukna hai? Har cheez ko better banate rehne ki gunjaish hoti hai. Kabhi kaam ko kaafi maan kar rakh dena bhi ek faisla hai.
Ismein ambition chhota karne ki zaroorat nahin lagti. Us ambition ke saath rehne layak ek rozmarra bhi toh chahiye.
Thakaan ko inaam mat banaiye
Kisi cheez ke liye mehnat karne mein khushi ho sakti hai. Mushkil kaam poora karne ka sukoon bhi apni jagah hai. Lekin jab thakaan hi mehnat ka saboot ban jaaye, toh rukne ki koi saaf jagah nahin bachti. Har din ke aakhir mein bas aur thoda kar sakne ka hisaab reh jaata hai.
Aaraam ko bhi kabhi kabhi hum ek aur assignment bana dete hain. Sahi tarah relax karna hai, perfect routine rakhna hai, phir zyada productive banna hai. Is sab ke beech bina kisi agle fayde ke waqt guzaarne ki jagah chhoot sakti hai. Chai thandi hone se pehle peena bhi kaafi wajah ho sakti hai.
Aur agar kisi din rukna mumkin hi na ho, toh us din ke liye khud ko ek aur lecture dene ki zaroorat nahin. Kuch hafte bas sambhaalne ke hote hain. Unmein chhote tareeqe dhoondhna, kisi se madad maangna, ya baad ki koi zimmedaari kam karna zyada sachcha jawab ho sakta hai.
Jagah bachakar rakhna
Sahi cheezon ke liye jagah banane mein kuch galtiyaan hongi. Jis kaam ko maayne rakhne wala samjha, uske saath rishta badal sakta hai. Kisi commitment ko chhodte waqt afsos bhi ho sakta hai. Apna faisla dobara dekhne ki ijazat honi chahiye, khaaskar jab halaat badal gaye hon.
Shayad abhi ke liye ek hi cheez chuni jaa sakti hai: agle hafte kis baat ko list ke bache hue kone mein nahin rakhna? Uske liye kaunsi chhoti jagah bachaani hai? Jawab ek mulaqaat, ek adhoora kaam, kuch seekhne ka waqt, ya ek bilkul khaali shaam ho sakta hai.
Main aisi mehnat ki taraf jhukna chaahunga jiske beech apni zindagi bhi pehchaan mein aaye. Jahan logon ke liye waqt ho, apni galti sudhaarne ki gunjaish ho, aur har khaali jagah ko bharna zaroori na lage. Sahi cheezon ke liye kuch jagah khaali bhi rakhni padegi.
